Hey folks. The name's Jason. (You can call me Jay if you want.) 33, nerd, witch, pansexual, cat dad, writer, artist, wrestling fan and occasional let's player. Things I post/reblog: Nerdy things, NSFW, animals, wrestling, music, witchy things, the paranormal, and random thoughts/feelings. So please, enjoy.

 

our-bi-space:

Red flags for bi women dating men

  1. He asks for graphic details of your past sexual experiences
  2. He asks you to compare him to the women you’ve been with
  3. He asks you for a threesome
  4. He asks you not to mention your bisexuality because it makes him feel insecure
  5. He is okay with you having guy friends but not girl friends
  6. He is okay with you having girl friends but not guy friends
  7. He watches bisexual porn
  8. He talks about how he’s “turned” you
  9. He threatens to out you to friends and family
  10. He accuses you of cheating (with no evidence except for the fact that you’re bi)

Please, stay safe. We are in a unique position that makes us more vulnerable than we think. Keep watch, make note of red flags and gut instinct, and create a safety plan just in case.

Little things that help moods

1980vibes:

  1. getting enough sunshine
  2. short walks with your favourite music 
  3.  don’t stay up until 3am 
  4.  get off tumblr/social media if it’s unhealthy 
  5. don’t stay in bed the whole day
  6.  plan out your day 
  7.  listen to music
  8. change your clothes 
  9.  set yourself small goals 
  10.  say yes to fun events 
  11. drink water, it takes 5 seconds 
  12. talk to a close friend
  13. you’re not unwanted or hopeless, also you deserve love so be nice to yourself 

khymeera:

dingoat:

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Still hurts, but enough time’s passed for me to get out this bit of catharsis. I miss my kitty.

I’m not crying, you’re crying

nerd-on-duty:
“ rizaoftheowls:
“ awwww-cute:
“This little man made himself at home while I cleaned his enclosure. He didn’t want to let go when I was finished, I guess he enjoyed my warmth! (Source: https://ift.tt/2CXki9Z)
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nerd-on-duty:

rizaoftheowls:

awwww-cute:

This little man made himself at home while I cleaned his enclosure. He didn’t want to let go when I was finished, I guess he enjoyed my warmth! (Source: https://ift.tt/2CXki9Z)

fancy hair tie

This is how you identify Medusa’s heirs, right?

*updates the tags on an old Star Wars art post with no nudity in it*

staff: “WE DETECTED ADULT CONTENT ON YOUR BLOG”

Me: “On what now?!”

staff: ‘THIS POST YOU JUST UPDATED THE TAGS IN”

Me: “Okay… but there’s no nudity so let’s just appeal that.”

staff, instantly: “yep. okay. you’re right.”